Obstacles to Destiny
Though we are created for destiny, that does not mean it is automatic. We have obstacles that hinder our pursuit of destiny. Some of them are external, like people, and some are internal, like character flaws. We have an adversary who opposes us experiencing GOD’S potential. He will do everything possible to thwart our pursuit of destiny. He will throw temptations and distractions at us. Destiny is not a given. It is a calling that beckons and we follow it. And all along the path are hindrances.
I have faced numerous obstacles and in the process of pursuing GOD’S calling, something awesome has happened. Those obstacles become opportunities. They became the catalysts for my growth. Not only was GOD preparing a destiny for me, but He was preparing me for a destiny. 
Where there was:                    He developed:
 Fear                                        Courage
 Self ignorance                        Self-awareness
 Short-sightedness                   Purpose
 Meaningless relationships     Relational skills
 Lack of focus                         Direction
 Apathy                                   Passion
 Lack of integrity                    Character 
 No confidence                       Confidence
As time passes, I continue to experience obstacles. Often they are bigger than the ones I have faced before. As I do, I experience the grace to become more than I am. I know that GOD is fitting me for His destiny.
As a parent, ask yourself: Where do I see my child struggling the most? What are his/her hindrances to destiny? How is GOD using them for his/her good? What is my role in GOD’S development plan?
The first answer to that question is always prayer. And from there, you begin to see more of how GOD is using you for their good.